Embracing Divine Pleasure: A Journey into Sacred Sexuality with Bibi Brzozka
In this episode, Tara is joined by Bibi Brzozka, a renowned Vita Certified sex, love, and relationship coach. Bibi shares her fascinating journey from growing up in Poland during communism to becoming an international holistic sexuality speaker and energetic love-making guide. Together, they delve into the world of sacred sexuality and the power of embracing pleasure for personal growth and fulfillment.
Growing up in Poland
Bibi takes us back to her childhood in Poland during the time of communism. She vividly recalls the scarcity of material goods, such as seeing a banana for the first time at the age of eight. Despite the limitations, Bibi's parents instilled in her a sense of appreciation for the simple things in life. They encouraged adventure and resourcefulness, which shaped Bibi's personality and entrepreneurial spirit. Her upbringing taught her the value of appreciating what we have and being creative in challenging circumstances.
Redesigning her life
After a successful corporate career in finance and banking, Bibi realized she lacked fulfillment and passion. She describes feeling a void and a growing sense that something was off. To distract herself, she indulged in shallow pleasures like shopping and casual sex. However, these distractions soon wore off, and Bibi found herself questioning her life's purpose. This led her to embark on a personal discovery journey, exploring various modalities such as meditation, plant medicine, and sexual energy practices. It was during this time that Bibi experienced her first full-body orgasm, a transformative milestone that ignited her passion for exploring sacred sexuality.
Awakening to sacred energy
Bibi explains that a full-body orgasm is not just a momentary release but a profound energetic experience that expands consciousness. By harnessing sexual energy and moving it throughout the body, one can tap into higher states of awareness and self-realization. Bibi shares that these energy orgasms can be cultivated through practices like slowing down, deep breathing, and focusing on sensations in the body. She emphasizes the importance of separating ejaculation from orgasm for men, allowing them to retain and circulate their sexual energy for prolonged pleasure and connection.
Different types of orgasms
Bibi introduces the audience to the various types of orgasms beyond the traditional clitoral or vaginal orgasms. She explains that orgasms can be experienced in different parts of the body, such as the breasts, ears, neck, or even through emotions like laughter or sadness. By expanding our understanding of pleasure and opening ourselves to new sensations, we can tap into a wide range of orgasmic states. Bibi encourages women to explore their own bodies and discover what brings them pleasure and fulfillment.
Practices for self-exploration
To begin the journey of self-discovery and sensual exploration, Bibi recommends setting aside dedicated time for self-pleasure rituals. Creating a sacred space with elements like candles, music, and intention-setting can enhance the experience. Starting with movement, breathwork, and embodiment practices helps to connect with the body and quiet the mind. Bibi advises women to focus on the entire body, not just the genitals, and to experiment with different forms of touch and sensations. By slowing down and being present in the moment, women can expand their pleasure capacity and cultivate a deeper connection with their bodies.
Embracing sensuality and sacredness
Bibi emphasizes the importance of embracing sensuality as a gateway to sexuality. In a fast-paced world focused on productivity, we often overlook the power of slowing down and experiencing the world through our senses. By tapping into sensuality and engaging in mindful touch, we can create a foundation for more fulfilling and sacred sexual experiences. Bibi also highlights the societal shame around sexuality and the need for education and open conversations to break free from these limitations.
From sex to superconsciousness
Bibi shares insights from Osho's book, From Sex to Superconsciousness, which explores the potential of sexual energy to elevate consciousness. By approaching sexuality as a spiritual practice, we can use sexual energy to deepen our self-realization and connect with the divine. Bibi encourages couples to explore energetic lovemaking, where sexual energy is exchanged and amplified, leading to prolonged states of bliss and union.
Embracing divine pleasure through the exploration of sacred sexuality can be a transformative and empowering journey. Bibi Broska's personal experiences and teachings offer a roadmap for individuals and couples to tap into their full orgasmic potential and cultivate deeper connections. By honoring sensuality, embracing foreplay, and expanding our understanding of pleasure beyond traditional norms, we can create a more fulfilling and sacred approach to intimacy. Let us embark on this journey of self-discovery and self-love, one orgasm at a time.
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